In an interview, we often lean on “power words.”

  • “I’m highly motivated.”
  • “I have a relentless work ethic.”
  • “I’m a natural leader.”

The problem? Language is subjective. One person’s “relentless” is another person’s “subpar.” Consider the definition of “hard work”: To a corporate accountant in the U.S., it might mean 70-hour weeks during tax season. To a subsistence farmer in a developing nation, that same level of effort is simply what is required for survival every single day.

Without a Common Denominator, words are just empty vessels. To find a true fit, we must translate our adjectives into patterns of action.

1. Proof Over Promises

When we tie specific actions to our words, we provide a yardstick. Instead of claiming a “strong work ethic,” describe the 4:00 AM routines, the consistent over-delivery on deadlines, or the specific problems you solved when others stopped looking. Action provides the validity that adjectives cannot.

2. Auditing Tendencies, Not Just Skills

An interview shouldn’t be a sales pitch; it should be an audit of patterns.

  • We aren’t what we say we are.
  • We are the sum of our consistent behaviors.

Employers aren’t just looking for someone who can do the job; they are looking for a behavioral match. By sharing your “action-patterns,” you allow the employer to see if your “operating system” aligns with their company culture.

3. The Power of “True Fit”

Using action-based language creates a filter. If your “fast-paced” doesn’t match the employer’s “fast-paced,” it’s better to know that during the interview than three months into the job.

The takeaway: In your next interview (or when hiring for your next role), stop selling the adjective. Start showing the evidence. Evidence is the only language that doesn’t get lost in translation.

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Mike DePaulo, LSSBB, CDR,

DePaulo Consulting, LLC.